Saturday, March 12, 2011

Unit 10

Hello Everyone.

Back in Unit 3, I rated my physical health as a five. This was because I felt that I was not getting enough physical exercise. I blamed it on my studying and traveling. I also stated that I was going to start my exercise program after I was finished with school in May. I would now rate my physical health as a seven. I have started to exercise on a more regular basis. I am not perfect, but I do try to get at least 3 – 4 workouts in a week. I am striving for 7 weekly sessions. I know this sounds impossible, but I am beginning to feel so much better after I exercise. I started exercising again because both of my classes this semester were encouraging me to do so. I get so much relief from my daily stress and I have more energy. I really am enjoying it and I have found that I DO have time for exercise. This is now one thing that I do not want to put off doing.

I rated my spiritual health as a six in Unit 3. I feel this is probably a 7 or 8 now. I have a better awareness of my spirituality and I am trying to pray more. My prayers are also becoming more meaningful to me. I am not longer just going through the motions of praying. I also am trying to think and act in a more spiritual way. I can see that I am improving in this area. I still have a ways to go, but I really can see the difference. I haven’t been able to volunteer like I want, but I did register to be on the “mission” list at work. My company helps out in areas of need and has asked for a list of people who would be willing to do volunteer work in various countries. I signed up even though it is not directly related to my church; it will give the ability to help others.

I rated my psychological well being as a seven. This has probably improved to an 8 or even a 9. I feel really good psychologically. I have been able to reduce my stress and I feel more at peace. Things are not bothering me as much as they once did. I feel more able to let things bounce off of me rather than getting upset about them. I still have my moments, but when I look back at how I was in Unit 3, I am so much better!

When I look back at the goals that I set in Unit 3, I am accomplishing many of them. I might not have done it in the exact way I had planned to, but they are getting done. One goal was to exercise on a regular basis. I am almost there. I am exercising regularly, but I just want to increase it. I also am taking my religion with me on the road. I was in Europe one weekend and instead of sleeping in and not going to church; I got up and took a cab to Notre Dame. Even if I didn’t understand what the priest was saying (the mass was in French), I was able to go through the mass. I also bought a rosary so, I can pray whenever I feel like it. I use to pray the rosary when I first became Catholic. I feel that I was more spiritual then. Hopefully by praying with the rosary, it will bring me more back to that feeling. I also feel that I have accomplished my goal of acknowledging my feelings to my family in a more constructive way. I am actually having more meaningful conversations with my husband, daughter, and son. I feel that we have even become closer during this semester. Its not like we were that far away to begin with, but it just seems we are even closer now.

Take Care and Good Luck!

Carol 

8 comments:

  1. Hey Carol,
    I love how much you have accomplished for yourself during this term! It's such a wonderful feeling to be able to take a good look at yourself, make goals, and begin the steps toward them. You are an inspiration. One of the great strides I've witnessed in you is your new found ability to adapt what you need to do to take care of yourself while still living through your schedule. Way to go! I've been blessed to have gotten to know you so much better this term and am looking forward to continuing our friendship.
    Be well.

    ReplyDelete
  2. Wow, Carol.. you have done a wonderful job. I especially appreciate how you are taking more time to be more mindful of your prayers. so many times people just go through the motions of just saying prayers because they think they should or have to out of religious obligation...But I think when you take time to think deeply about what it is we need want and are thankful for it becomes more meaningful...
    I am very happy for you and pray that you continue to reach your goals....

    Jamillah~

    ReplyDelete
  3. Hi Carol,

    I am so happy to know that you have made quite a breakthrough with the goals you established in unit 3. More importantly, the impact of what you have learned from this class is showing in your relationship with your husband and children. Perhaps, it is because you are less reactive. What do you think? Nevertheless, Congratulations Carol!

    ReplyDelete
  4. Carol,
    COngratulations on your success! What a great job! One thing I did want to mention to you though is that they do say that it is a good idea to give your body at least a days break from exercise. Your body needs that time to rejuvinate and repair from the exercise. Maybe you could use Sunday as your break day. Go to church, spend the day with the family and just relax that day. Work out your spiritual self that day..LOL. I think you have accomplished a lot this term. Mucho Kudos to you!!
    Jenn

    ReplyDelete
  5. Hi Ellen,

    Thanks. We shall see how it goes when I am on the road. On my last trip, I had a terrible cold. I think I got it due to the stressful schedule I had last month. I didn't feel like exercising. I did do some relaxation exercises though. I will be on the road next week and I hope that I can continue to dance away! Take care and I hope to continue our conversations on the blogs!

    ReplyDelete
  6. Hi Jamillah,

    I was just going through the motions of praying before. I would lose my concentration on the slightest thing. Now, I can do it anywhere. It is amazing how things have changed in a few short weeks!!

    Take care!

    Carol

    ReplyDelete
  7. Hi Mel,

    I think you hit the nail on the head. I am almost certain that I am not as reactive in a situation as I was at the beginning of this class. I now try to look at the situation before I say or do anything. Take care and good luck in the future. Are you planning on continuing your blog?

    Carol

    ReplyDelete
  8. Hi Jenn,

    You are absolutely right. We do need a day to recoup from exercising. I think what I will do is schedule my exercise for everyday and on those days that I don't feel like exercising, I will switch it out with meditation or yoga. It will help to give my mind a break too!

    Carol

    ReplyDelete