While listening to this track, I found the first part of the track to be annoying. The man’s voice was not appealing to me. When the woman began to speak, I was relieved that the exercise was going to be with her voice. The exercise was meant to develop our inner consciousness. We were asked to focus on a wise individual. I used my father for this individual. We have always had a close relationship, but this exercise left me with a deeper feeling for him. I have often admired him for his ability to control a situation with calmness and not explosiveness. I tend to be explosive in my reactions. This is an area that I am working on improving. By doing this exercise, I was able to start to develop a better think before I speak approach to situations. It reminded me to remember my father’s way of handling a situation. In the practice, we were told to let the wise person’s speech become our own and this is what I did. It made me realize how important our words and actions can be.
I liked how the waves in the background gave me a soothing sense of being. It was very relaxing and calming. I did this in the morning and it gave me a relaxed feeling for the rest of the day. During the exercise, I was actually able to visualize the waves and the white light. This is sometimes a problem for me because my mind tends to wander. I was able to focus on the exercise for the entire time.
When I started this course, I was under a ton of stress. I had just gotten through the death of my father-in-law and the Christmas holidays. The day after class began, I was leaving for work. This meant that I would be on the road, almost continuously, for six weeks. When I looked at the amount of work that there was to do for my courses this semester, stress started to build even more. I thought I was going to explode from all of the stress that I was encountering. I would wake up in the middle of the night with my heart racing. I felt like I couldn’t take the time to really enjoy something because I should be studying. Once I started getting in to my courses, I found the mindfulness practices and meditation to be quite helpful. I began to do them because of the requirements for class, but later I started to realize the benefits that I was receiving from them. Psychologically, my stress has been reduced and I feel more at ease. I am no longer preoccupied by my studies. I face them with the calmness that I should have had in the past. I now am finding more time to devote to myself. I have been doing meditation on a regular basis. Now, it is not a requirement for class, but a requirement for my self. I plan on continuing this on a regular basis from now on. I even downloaded some of the mp3s onto my Ipod so that I can listen to them whenever I need to de-stress. I also have noticed that I have become more connected in my prayers. Although I regularly pray, I think I was just going through the motions. I now feel the difference when I pray and I have noticed that they have become longer and more meaningful. Lastly, I have been able to develop time for exercise. This has been something that I have been missing in my life. Before college, I exercised on a regular basis. One could say that I needed my exercise fix every day. When I started college, I felt that I had to give this up because of my time constraints. Boy, was I wrong! This was one area that I needed to keep in my life, but I didn’t realize it. Through the use of these exercises, I have decreased my feelings of time urgency. I feel that I have become more productive with the time that I do have and therefore, I am able to concentrate more on myself.
The statement, "One cannot lead another where one has not gone himself” refers to the fact that you must practice what you preach. If you do not believe and partake in these practices of integral health, you can not communicate the need for your clients to do so. As a practitioner of integral health, you do have an obligation to your patients to develop your own areas of psychological, physical, and spiritual health. It sets an example for them and it also shows them how important they are to one’s life.
I plan on developing my psychological and spiritual aspects by implementing a variety of methods into my current lifestyle. The first method is to exercise on a regular basis no matter how hectic my life becomes. This allows me to clear my mind and body. I am starting to think of sweating as a way to cleanse my body of impurities. It also cleanses my mind. I will also incorporate meditation into my daily life. This will help to develop my spirituality. Although I have not started to do yoga, I plan to incorporate this into my life as a way of continuing the connection between my mind and body. These are only a few baby steps, but considering where I was at in the beginning of this course, it is a great accomplishment for me. I now do not think of it as being required, but rather a necessity in my life.
Take care,
Carol
Wow, Carol! I love this post! Your realization about time constraints really struck a cord within me. I used to rely on my detailed schedule and going off it made me crazy. I no longer have to do that and sometimes I still feel the residue of that need to fit it all in. Meditation has helped me slow down this urgency.
ReplyDeleteI'm so happy to read how you've applied this journey of learning to your busy life. It proves how much it works if people just take the time to examine what is important to them.
You are a fine example of how we can teach our clients the possibility of making time to do what is important and reducing the things that are just time consuming.
Keep up the great work!
Be well.
Boy Ellen, that was quick. I just posted this! Thanks for the encouragement. I have a long way to go. You sound just like me. I was wrapped so tightly around my to-do list that it actually caused me more stress than relieved it. I made it impossible for myself. I don't know how this happened, but I am sure that this course was the cause of it. I have found an enourmous amount of time in my schedule now. I think it is because I feel so relaxed now. I no longer feel that sense of time urgency. I still have the same amount of work, but it is getting done! I think adding exercise and meditation to my daily routine is the key for me.
ReplyDeleteAre you planning on continuing your blod after the class is over? I am!
Take Care,
Carol
Hi Carol,
ReplyDeleteYou made a great post. I can really relate to you stress levels. I have had those same feelings, "how am I ever going to get all of this done". Then, "and do it well" ,in my case. But, when I get that way, I have to remind myself that I have been there before, and you know what, somehow, someway, the important and necessary things find a way of getting done. The important thing is to manage your time, and as Ellen keeps reminding me, I need to make some more time for myself to meditate, and then things will not seem to build up!
Take care
Karin
Hi Karin,
ReplyDeleteThanks. I am glad that someone else has similar problems with it. I think I am going to start taking your approach to it. They always do get done. I don't know why I always worry about doing them. Ellen has been a great help to me. She also reminds me to keep taking time for myself and to remember to meditate. It use to seem like the last thing I would want to do because I was so concerned about getting everything done. Now, it is beginning to become the first thing that I think of doing!
By the way, congrats on your horse. That is an awesome accomplishment. What is his name? I have horse too and I also show them.
Take Care,
Carol
Hi Carol - Your post really touched my heart. I often used the memories of people close to me that I admire in order to help me deal with a particularly stressful situations. I now find it easier to recognize these times before they get out of hand. Thanks for sharing from your heart.
ReplyDeleteMary
Hi Mary,
ReplyDeleteThanks. I find it amazing how some people can touch one's heart and we don't even know why. I also have been noticing a change in the way I have been handling things lately. I have noticed that I am beginning to have more time on my hands. Stress was eating away at me. Now, I have time to do things that are not related to school, work, or my family. I am beginning to feel almost guilty! I wished I had taken this class when I first started college. It would have helped me a lot.
Carol
Carol, I am glad to find these meditation techniques are helping you. I too have found them to calm my mind and approach situations with a calmer attitude. I have been practicing yoga sessions more during this class. I have noticed a significant change in my physicue. My upper body has elongated and my mid section has been reduced. Yoga addresses not only the mind, but every single muscle. http://www.yogastylefitness.com/ I highly recommend his dvd's. I have gone to his classes at 24 hr. Fitness and he is the best in town. I drive 45 min to attend his sessions. Good luck and enjoy!
ReplyDeleteThanks Maria! I think I am going to order both of his DVDs on your recommendation. I just started to get back into exercising on a regular basis. Last week, I was able to do it very regularly. I am leaving for 8 days on Sunday and I am looking for things I can do on the road. This would fit right into my workout plans. I plan on doing meditation, yoga, and something unusual. Don't laugh when I tell you what it is! My daughter works in the music industry in NYC. Because of her knowledge, I asked her to download some music on to my Ipod for my trip to Australia. I didn't listen to it before I left, but when I got onto the plane and turned it on....I was quite surprised. Instead of something relaxing.....it was hip-hop music. You got it. Jay-Zee, Nellie, Usher, and etc. Not what I was really looking for. I decided to put the music into a playlist and use it for dancing. I can dance in my hotel room whenever I want. The beat is fast enough that it gets my heart pumping and me sweating. I am also probably burning as many calories as if I would hit the treadmill. So far, it is working because I like doing it. Last week, I lost three pounds!
ReplyDeleteCarol, I enjoyed reading your post. How true you are about stress and time constraints. The inner peace we have found through the meditative exercises in this course has helped us cope and adjust are busy lifestyles. It is like I can handle anything as long as I meet my spiritual needs and practice what I've learned about caring and serving others.
ReplyDeleteI agree with your interpretation of "the statement." The right thing to do is to be honest to yourself. An integral healer who dose not practice what they preach seems to me would be hypocritical, and sincerity is characteristic of human flourishing.
Continue the good work.
Hi Howell,
ReplyDeleteThanks for the compliment. I really think we should have took this class earlier in our college work. It would have helped me tremendously. All the time management in the world would not help me. I now have a inner peace about my homework. LOl.
I could not imagine someone trying to be a practitioner of integral health without believing in it. I am sure there are some people out there doing it, but I can't imagine that they would be very good at it.
Take care,
Carol
Carol,
ReplyDeleteWhat a wonderful success you have had already with this! Congratulations on your new found practices. I too have a tendancy to explode before I think about it. I have started counting to 10 before I respond to certain things and people. I especially ahve a hard time on my commute to and from work. I do not have much patience with idiot drivers. I keep the CD from class in the car and have listened to the first track a few times on my drive and it seemed to help. Granted, I cannot fully partake, but just listening does do some good. I think your idea of reimplementing exercise is a wonderful idea. we all know we feel better when we can exercise. Great post!
jenn